Wednesday, September 12, 2012

We Marry Our Dad's!

I'm not sure if this is completely true.  I see similarities of my friends and family between dad and husband.  But sometimes I don't get it so I'm confident it's not a scientific fact. 

I will say for me, I have married a man that reminds me so much of my Step Daddy that I honest and truly cry.  Daddy is very much on my heart as his birthday was Saturday.  A day that Robert and I celebrated with cooking out on the grill...just like we would've done had Daddy still been with us.  Robert will say things that my Daddy said, will make facial expressions that are right on and will get wound up over the little things, just like my Daddy.   I guess when that special person is in your life and you were loved, cared for and secure you seek that out in your adult relationships. I would give up much to have one more day with Daddy.  Not for myself, but to allow Robert and him to fish and to sit in silence and say so very much without one word spoken.

I wonder if Robert feels like he married his Mother?  YIKES!!!

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