Wedding Plans

I was lucky enough (and just naive enough) that my Mom and my Sister planned most of my first wedding.  I picked out the material for the bridesmaid dresses and I picked out my dress, and had some say in the cake.  Oh, and I also picked out the theme of the wedding.  I THINK I picked out the invitations, too?

I don't remember the first time being stressful, although there was a problem with a fight that happen weeks before my wedding and my childhood best friend was not in my wedding (we've made up and all is good in the world!), but other than that it was all good!  I remember going into the bathroom right before I walked down the isle and vomiting...but that is SO normal for me so I don't even consider that an issue. 

This time is stressful.  My Sister is helping me plan, which I'm so thankful for, but she's in Texas and I'm here and I have to visual everything! Also, as some of you know, my Sister has control issues. Then, I have the whole divorce parents thing, throwing Roberts Mom, friends and family into the mix and praying to the good Lord above that my Cousin Mike is only kidding about picking up road kill to BBQ and feed everyone! 

Robert and me can't remember why we talked ourselves out of eloping.  I'm blaming my niece Kelcy because I distinctly remember asking her if she would be mad if she wasn't  there and she said, "I will never forgive you, Aunt Jonya".  There it is!